Just T.O.P, took up a 2 years fixed lock in. Good catch.

Welcome to my new virtual space.

http://www.andguy.com

I asked the question when he is away.
“Why do you think he’s the one?”
And I asked the question once again when she is away.

“Because I know that he is someone who can take care of me very well.” followed by a shy grin on her face.
“Because I love her.” with a blank yet sincere look on his.

It’s all starting to make sense. Or not.

One gets married because she wants to be taken good care of.
Another gets married because he loves her

Marriage is definitely not a tool to secure a care taker. You can employ one outside.
Marriage is about true love, isn’t it?

Or, Am I wrong from this perspective?

Will I be offended by them? A hell NO.. Their lies doesn’t have the ability to change my life and affect my emotions. Reason being, they are in no way related to my future, my life.

But what if that someone holds an important role in your life? Yes, the disappointment will sets in and stay there for a period of time, affecting your daily life, and most importantly, how you look at him again. Don’t ever think that it is just a small white lie. When the truth is out, you will lose that trust the person have for you.

It takes one lie, to cover up for another, and another, and yet another. Boys and girls out there, lying requires a certain level of skills to successfully hide what you are trying to. You shouldn’t execute this thought if you are not experience enough.

I strongly urge you to think it through before you even begin to lie. Trust me, it is very tiring for both parties. Most importantly, don’t take the risk to shatter the most important element in all relationship.
It’s called Trust.

Because this is what I look forward to in reality.

A great example to share. This person, lets call him John. 8 years ago, John was a student in a college and he is stubborn like hell. Unwilling to take any form of pocket money from his parents because he wants to prove that he can survive by juggling between a part time job, and managing his schoolwork. The year end holiday is approaching, and he wants to save up his first $5000 by school reopen, so that he can focus on his final year.
John manage to secure 2 part time jobs. Right after his last paper, will be the first step to earn his $5000. From 9am to 6am in this particular cafe, and 630pm to 1130pm at another cafe. EVERY weekday. On Friday, he finished at 1am, and on Saturday, he finished at 3am. A fine young man, full of energy like a bull. He have absolute no problem with the working hours.
A month later while at work, he received a phone call from his brother at 545pm, telling him that their grandfather is very sick, and might not be able to hold on for long. John thought about it.
“Should he proceed to the other workplace?”
Foolish John went ahead. At 7pm, His brother called.
His grandfather has left the world. John will never be able to see him ever again.
If, he chose to go straight to the hospital, he will be able to hold his hands, and tell him that magical sentence.
“I love you.”

At his grandfather’s wake, he starts to see things clearer. He have not met his relatives and cousins for a long time. He realise one more thing. His own beloved father, is sick as well. His cancer has relapsed recently after 3 years. The cells have spread to his shoulder and he have difficulty turning his head. He, did not even notice it even though they are staying under the same roof. That busy lifestyle have stopped the communication he has with his family all along. He is just too focus in working towards his $5000 goal. After the funeral, he quit his job and stayed home to spend more time with his dad.
But then, it was all too late.
3 months later, his dad pass away.

Having a goal is indeed a good thing in life. To work hard and achieve what you want. In the process of achieving it, you might gain some, and lose some. If you can afford to lose it, carry on with what you have set upon. If you can’t, slow down and amend the route. Make sure there’s a balance before continuing the journey.
Reaching your goal slower but with a clear conscious and happy mindset, is much fulfilling then reaching your goal fast, but in the process, you have regrets and losing things that you can’t afford to lose.

Today, John is a happier man. He might not be successful in his career yet, but he definitely knows the correct way to balance things out with his love ones. When the time comes for his career to take off, he knows that he have got plenty of people to share the happiness with. He is just waiting for that very moment, when happiness shine onto him like the morning rays.

I like the above statement. It just remind me to keep on asking WHY.

Taylor Swift’s Love Story meets Coldplay’s Viva La Vida

This is going to change.

Mr Hyde is going to camp deep inside me for a long time from NOW onwards.

Yes, talk is cheap like I always said. But the words always work hand in hand with my sub-conscience mind to execute actions when I am a little overdose. Doing stupid things that if given a choice, I would like to reverse the whole process.

Right now,

The beer boy in me will continue to love the malt barley drink. Not with limitation, but with total control.